It’s Spring???

For all you Utahns this is not unusual, but for us it is… especially in March.

The girls couldn’t resist any longer. They got bundled up and headed outside. When Justin got home from work he went out to join them (along with all the neighborhood kids).

It’s now 8:00 pm, dark outside, still snowing, and they are still out having fun.

Our Visit to Utah

As many of you know, Thursday, March 13th my Mom's husband, Jack passed away. Jason and I took the first flight to Utah on Friday morning to be with her and Justin and the girls drove down and arrived on Sunday afternoon. The funeral was held that Monday morning. All of my Mom's seven sisters were in town for my uncle's funeral and were able to attend Jack's as well. It was great to visit with my extended family, but wish it would have been under different circumstances.

Justin was able to take the entire week off of work so we could stay through Easter. While we were there we were able to celebrate my niece, Brynn’s eighth birthday.

My sister signed us up for the Easter Dive at the local swimming pool. There actually wasn’t any “diving” involved since the younger kids gathered eggs around the play area in the shallow end. It was fun to watch and the girls had a blast. Carly lost track of which basket was hers so there was a lucky little boy with a basket full of eggs. Thankfully, some other kids must have gotten confused as well because Carly still ended up with some eggs to trade in for prizes after all. After the egg hunt the kids were able to stay and swim too. Lots of fun (except for the lifeguard jumping into the pool to save Carly’s life)… Justin swears she was fine – better safe than sorry.

(Abigail's wearing the blue swimsuit in the middle)

Easter dinner was held at my brother’s house. With two funerals during the past week, we’d all had our fill of ham and funeral potatoes so they made yummy kabobs instead. While the Easter eggs were being hidden in the back yard, the younger kids did an egg toss in the front yard. It didn’t take long for the seagulls to catch the scent and come clean up… it was like a scene from the old black and white movie “The Birds” (minus the bloodshed, of course).

Here’s the cousins after the family Easter egg hunt (minus three who weren’t able to be in town).

The kids enjoyed spending the rest of the evening sorting their candy and playing store (I think my girls got taken advantage of by their older and obviously more bargaining experienced cousins)… they didn’t come home with hardly any chocolate… lots of jelly beans though. :)

Jason got lots of attention from everyone and was willing to let anyone hold him. Yeah! Too bad I couldn’t pass him off to someone else at night. Jason quickly caught on that if he made any peep at night I would be at his side in a split second, willing to do whatever necessary to keep him quiet. This made for some long nights. Thankfully, our first night home he was back to his “normal” self.

(Jason met his Uncle Ray for the first time)

I'm grateful to have been able to go to Utah to be with my family at such a difficult time. Jack was a great husband and my Mom was his world.

J's Photo Session

I have a lot to blog about with our recent visit to Utah, but I need to attack the mounds of email, laundry, and mail that’s accumulated before I look through all the pictures I took. (We just got home last night) While out of town, I received a cd with pictures of Jason I had taken a month ago. He wouldn’t smile for the camera and kept sucking in his lips, but I think we still got some cute ones.

Hoppy Easter!

McTeacher Night

Last night was McTeacher Night at our neighborhood McDonalds. A portion of all sales went to our elementary school. The fun part is that the teachers and principal are working. Abigail’s teacher was on clean-up duty and her principal was manning the fry station. It was so fun for the kids to see the teachers outside of the classroom.

Abigail and her teacher

One More Do

Jason’s hair naturally just lays flat against his head. I don’t even comb it. Since we’re all about the hair lately, we spiced things up a little today.

I'm the Winner!

Haven’t we all had a conversation that went something like:

Woman #1: Oh, my house is such a mess!

Woman #2: There’s no way it could be nearly as messy as mine.

Woman #1: I’ve been in your house a thousand times and it’s never been a mess. You don’t know how messy a house can really be.

Woman #2: I’m sure it can’t be THAT bad.

I had a similar conversation this morning and the competition was on. I promised a friend I wouldn’t pick up a single thing and when she came by she could really see my house in all its disastrous glory. When she arrived I took her on the brief tour. We walked past the Balloon Graveyard, through Polly Pocket Lake, and into Ground Zero.

It was an easy win for me. Of course she tried to argue, but we both knew she never stood a chance!

Instead of feeling embarrassment for my serious lack of household organization, I feel a twisted sense of pride. My friend can now return to her home with the comfort that it really isn’t THAT bad.

If anyone else needs a boost… me and my home are here for you.

Trading Do's

I guess it’s just human nature to want what we don’t have. Carly wants short, curly hair like her big sister and Abigail wants long, straight hair like Carly. Since Carly got to have her hair styled special yesterday for her birthday, Abigail wanted her hair done special today.

Is it just me or do they look so much different just by trading hair-dos.

Happy Birthday Carly!

Carly celebrated her 4th birthday today and what better way to celebrate than to have a party. Having a princess party was perfect for Carly’s first birthday celebration with friends. Justin was able to leave work early and thankfully his Mom was able to come and help as well.

Carly often asks to have her hair curled, but I rarely have the time. For months I’ve been telling her that we’ll curl her hair for her party. I think I’ll curl it more often. She was so cute!

The first guests…

Eagerly waiting for the rest of the guests…


Decorating princess crowns…

Everyone was more than willing to help open presents…

Carly was truly spoiled and loved every single thing she received.

(She’s so excited to play her new computer game – thanks Mom!)

It was a fabulous group of girls and they all looked adorable in their fancy clothes.

Shortly after the princess party we had a family get together. More presents, more fun, and more yummy cake.

Thank you everyone for making Carly’s birthday wonderful!

Our Bookworm

In honor of Read Across America Day, I’d like to dedicate this post to our family bookworm. Abigail has always loved books. Even before she could read she was reciting books word-for-word (her favorite was “Are you my mother?”) – this girl has an amazing memory.

I LOVE this picture of Abigail quietly reading a book when she was two.

Abigail was reading quite well shortly after her third birthday and there’s been no stopping her since. Abigail’s love of reading is on the brink of being an addiction. It’s not unusual for her to get so involved in a book that she can’t put it down until she’s read the entire thing.

Completely oblivious that I’m even taking a picture:

Abigail is thrilled that today at school she gets to spend most of the day reading books. We love our little bookworm and hope she always has a strong desire to read and learn.

Two Thumbs Down

Justin and I haven’t been on very many kid-free dates since Jason was born. Last night Justin arranged for his Mom to babysit and we decided to go to a movie. There’s a new “dollar” theatre nearby so of course we had to check it out. The only movie playing that sounded entertaining was “I Am Legend”. I checked out the showtimes on fandango and read their brief description:

Robert Neville (Will Smith) is a brilliant scientist, but even he could not contain the terrible virus that was unstoppable, incurable and manmade. Somehow immune, Neville is now the last human survivor in what is left of New York City, and maybe the world.

So after a quick stop thru the Panda Express drive-thru we were headed to the movies. Twenty minutes into the movie I was ready to leave. I like suspenseful movies. What I don’t like is scary movies. Movies that leave you sleepless. Movies that make you want to leave the bathroom light on all night. Movies with horrific images you can’t get out of your head. Had I clicked on “read more” on the fandango description I would have continued reading:

But he is not alone. He is surrounded by ''the Infected'' — victims of the plague who have mutated into carnivorous beings who can only exist in the dark and who will devour or infect anyone or anything in their path. For three years, Neville has spent his days scavenging for food and sending out radio messages to find any other survivors. All the while, the Infected lurk in the shadows, watching Neville’s every move, waiting for him to make a fatal mistake. Perhaps mankind’s last, best hope, Neville is driven by only one remaining mission: to find a way to reverse the effects of the virus using his own immune blood. But his blood is also what The Infected hunt, and Neville knows he is outnumbered and quickly running out of time.

Knowing that Justin was enjoying the show, and being the selfless wife that I am, I sat through the remaining 80 minutes of torture. Eyes closed. Ears plugged. Crushing Justin’s hand. He owes me BIG time for this one. We’re watching “27 Dresses” next time.

A Taste of Spring

This past week was mid-winter break, not to be confused with Spring Break which will take place in just six weeks. It may sound strange, but I love having days off of school. The girls haven’t reached the stage yet where I have to find things to keep them busy with by planning little field trips and outings. We were able to spend most of the week taking it easy at home. I’m a home-body anyhow so I loved it. It was a great week and although it wasn’t our “spring break” it sure felt like it. The weather has been wonderful. Once again the girls are playing outside – eating otter-pops and writing with sidewalk chalk. There’s been bike rides, long walks, and playing with friends. Justin and I joke around that there aren’t too many places in the world that you don’t see your neighbors for 8 months out of the year. We certainly feel that way here. During the summer we visit with our neighbors nearly every day. Yesterday they were shocked to see how much Jason has grown since they last saw him (as a newborn). I’m sure we’ll see plenty more rainy days before spring really does come, but we’re certainly enjoying our little taste of spring while it lasts.

Poor Jason isn’t quite old enough to play outside with the big kids, but he definitely enjoyed watching them.

My Style?

During a conversation with some friends yesterday we were discussing paint colors and one friend expressed that she’s a cool colored person. She pointed out a few of the rooms in her house that clearly fit her “style”. I knew immediately I don’t know what my style is. Our first few paint jobs didn’t exactly turn out like we’d hoped. When Abigail was an infant we tried painting her room a soft pale yellow (perfect for any baby’s room)… the result was a bright summer sunshine yellow. Sadly, the yellow room is still there today. Since then we’ve tried to play it safer, in fact my house is painted the exact same color that the majority of my friend’s house is painted and I like it, it’s safe.

Last spring I began searching for new bedding. We bought our current duvet cover on clearance when we got married. I didn’t love it then and certainly don’t love it now. It’s been pointed out countless number of times, I don’t make decisions very easily, especially decisions based on style, a style I certainly don’t have figured out.

Here’s what we know. We don’t like our light “natural” colored maple cabinets and wood floors. We prefer dark wood. I love, love, love our new bed… it’s a deep, dark, beautiful wood that will never go out of style (I hope).

Anything we own needs to be washable and durable. Although beautiful and elegant, a light colored silk duvet cover isn’t going to cut it.

Justin says he wants color, but I doubt he’d be happy with this. After a few days, I don’t think I would be either.

This on the other hand is bright, but not as overwhelming. It looks like a nice piece of patterned paper I would buy. But do you want a huge 108” x 92” piece of patterned paper dominating your bedroom? I don’t know... you tell me. Too juvenile?

Maybe I need to go with a smaller design… a little more classic. Am I classic?

Is it possible that after 9 months of looking that a duvet cover in my “style” has yet to be created? Would something ever really jump out at me as the “one?” I have my doubts. Any thoughts and opinions would be appreciated. Just look at the color of my walls… I’m easily influenced (thanks Tara).

One more

Jen, is this the one you just bought?

"Tagged"

My friend Chrystie “tagged” me on her blog. This is my first time being tagged so I certainly can’t refuse. Here goes:

Two names you've gone by: 1) Hippo (a nickname given to me by my neighbor Colby in 3rd grade – it stuck with me all through high school) 2) Holl (used by my tagger, Chrystie or “Chrys”)

Two things I’m wearing right now: 1) Jeans 2) an oversized T-Mobile t-shirt (I have way too many free t-shirts & I wear them far too often)

Two things I want (or have) in a relationship: unconditional love and 100% forgiving (I’ve been trying to get with Jason to sleep through the night & even when he’s cried for nearly an hour, he still gives me a big smile in the morning… that’s love!)

Two of my favorite things to do: 1) sleep and 2) eat

Two things you did last night: 1) met my in-laws at Red Robin and had a yummy (and free) meal 2) played Princess UNO with Justin and the girls (we love this version)

Two people you last talked to: Abigail and Carly (if they don’t count then it was Jackie and Justin)

Two things you’re doing tomorrow: 1) one of the few things I can guarantee is that I’ll be getting out of bed (we have a commitment free day tomorrow) 2) going to the gym - that’s being optimistic ;)

Two longest car rides: I hate driving long distances!! 1) most recently was our drive to Utah for Christmas 2) as a child we had a few family reunions in Minnesota… six kids and a three day drive… not fun!

Two favorite holidays: 1) Christmas 2) Halloween (love chocolate candy!) – Valentines Day is also becoming a favorite, I’m so looking forward to having a fabulous fondue lunch with friends!

Two favorite drinks: 1) fruit smoothies 2) ice-cream shakes (runner-ups: orange juice, chocolate milk, and eggnog)

Two things about me you may not have known: 1) I rarely wear jewelry (including my wedding ring) 2) I would like to learn how to cut and put up crown molding

Two jobs I’ve had in my life: 1) McDonald’s (worked my way up the ladder to a “crew trainer” in high school) 2) I spent a week cleaning water coolers (it was disgusting and you wouldn’t believe how many little parts they have)

Two movies I would watch over and over: 1) Bed of Roses 2)Some Kind of Wonderful

Two favorite foods: Does dessert count? If not then, 1) potatoes 2) warm bread with real butter

Two places I’d rather be right now: 1) somewhere tropical and warm 2) asleep

Two people I tag: 1) Tami B. 2) Carrie A. (and of course anyone else willing to play)

Sitting Up!

Important to note:

1. Jason can not get into this position on his own
2. Jason can not get out of this position on his own (without head injuries)
   

But that fact that he’s gaining some balance is definitely post-worthy.

Half Year Stats

Jason went to the pediatrician yesterday for his six month checkup. He weighed in at a healthy 19 pounds, 8.2 ounces and he’s 27 ¾ inches long. Both measurements put him in the 80-90th percentiles. His head is of course off the charts (smart little guy!) The nurse commented that it’s hard to believe we ever had concerns about his weight.

Growing Up

It’s been almost four years since we brought Carly home from the hospital. She was my smallest baby, just over 7 pounds (two pounds smaller than both Abigail and Jason). She seemed so fragile.

I took this picture a few weeks ago when Carly thought it would be funny to sit in Jason’s car seat (also her old car seat). What happened to my tiny little baby?

Carly is a great helper. She loves doing laundry with me… she hangs up clothes, sorts socks, moves the clothes from the washer to the dryer, folds towels, etc… Carly’s favorite cleaning product is Clorox wipes - she’ll clean off the kitchen table, wipe the toilet seat, and clean the bathroom sinks. Of course she needs a new wipe every 30 seconds, but she’s cleaning so that’s okay. She also loves to help take care of Jason. She loves to be involved whether she’s getting me a diaper, giving Jason his binkie, or helping him take a bath.

(I know... he's getting way to big to still be taking baths in the kitchen sink)

On a rainy Saturday afternoon last month, Justin asked Carly if she wanted to help him deliver something to a friend about a mile away. Abigail had just walked over to a friend’s house to play wearing her rainboots and umbrella. Carly really wanted to use this as an opportunity to get all her raingear on too. So off she went while Justin drove slowly behind. I think he only let her go a few blocks before making her get in the van, but she was determined enough to go all the way.

We love our Carly!

We love our little stinker

Six stinkin’ reasons:

1. Before our trip to Utah Jason was giving me 10-12 hours at night without waking up. Since then we’ve been back to getting up 2-3 times per night. Thankfully he always goes right back to sleep up until at least 7 a.m., but once you’ve tasted the good life, it’s hard to go back.

2. Jason has entered the “I want to sleep in MY bed” phase. This is normally okay, but with him napping twice a day it would be nice to be able to put him down at a friend’s house, the YMCA, or at church. He will still fall asleep in the car, but he’s getting way too heavy to lug around in his infant carrier.

3. I’ve never had a cuddly baby. Newborns have to cuddle with you; they really don’t have any choice. As soon as Jason could wiggle and squirm my cuddling days ended. I have a friend who’s three year-old son would still fall asleep in her arms at church each Sunday. Jason’s only six months old and we’re far past that. This was the last time Jason snuggled with me. I’m glad I took the time to enjoy it. http://fletcherfamilyblog.blogspot.com/2007/11/moments-like-this.html

4. Jason drank his last bottle in the car on our way to Utah. Since then we’ve tried a countless number of times without any luck. I’ve tried different bottles, different nipples, different positions, and different time of the day. No bottle for Jason means no real freedom for Mom.

5. All of my kids started the whole stranger anxiety phase pretty early on… no fun. It appears that Jason might be heading down that road. I’m envious of anyone who’s been able to pass their baby around at church and the kid is completely oblivious. Hopefully we still have a chance to keep it from getting bad.

6. Jason must be one of the gassiest babies. Anyone whose been around this guy knows what I’m talking about… he’s potent!

Six Months Old

Sunday was Jason’s half-birthday! It’s hard to believe my little guy is already 6 months old. To celebrate, Jason ate his first meal – sweet potatoes and corn. He loved it.

As I was feeding him, there was a moment he acted like he was going to sneeze. I made a comment implying it would have been messy if he did. Carly’s response: “He would have bless you’d all over.” So cute!

I’ll post his stats next week when he sees the pediatrician… I'm thinking he’s at least 18 lbs.